Okay. It’s been a minute. Time to sit down and do a little bit of self reflection and me time.
Here’s the pick of the day.
What am I going to achieve next month?
Well… I have seven days to figure this out in my reality. But that also means I can hover in the clouds for seven days envisioning all of the great successes and achievements until then, too.
February. The month of love. The season of togetherness. The endless supply of chocolate. Oh my gosh, side note…did you know that they make beef jerky flowers and will deliver it to you? It’s the perfect alternative for the strange people like me to those regular bouquets of flowers. Don’t get me wrong, flowers are great when it’s a surprise! But, I’ll pass on the obligatory occasions for flower giving. Make it special, make it spicy. Yum, beef jerky. Take my money.
Okay okay. Focusing. And once again I’m hungry. I’ve really gotta stop doing this before dinner. I think it’s going to be shrimp and pasta. I’m feeling it.
Where were we? Yes. February. If you haven’t been following any of my other posts, spoiler alert: I’m single. Everyone cry with me now. I’m totally kidding. Sort of. My heart will forever want this man, because, well, he’s totally amazing and we broke it off on good terms, and it’s been long distance, and it’s pointless to be in a relationship right now, blah blah blah. I’ve made peace with it. We’ll see where life goes. I’m learning to love this season of singleness, truly. I have another shot to learn how to be selfish. How to put myself first. To find who it is I am. And I guess it’s not so bad. I can chase my dreams again, devote all my energy to me, myself, I, and God. And focusing on me means it’s off to the Galantine’s parties for this gal. And snagging a guy is definitely not on my list of achievements for next months adventures. I think I’m going to focus on doing things that show mad love to myself. That’s always allowed. But what to do, what to do.
Here’s a few thoughts that have come to mind:
Ways to love myself
- spa day (yes)
- work on getting those abs (dear God, please)
- buy a new cardigan (because I need one)
- spend time with some gals (rom-coms here we come)
- take myself on a hot date (I’ve needed an excuse to dress up)
- record a few episodes for my podcast (dream in the making)
- add some more elements to my business venture (my mind keeps changing)
There. Seven. Seven choices, and seven days to refine them in to one complete task–loving myself. Then I can really focus and go at it. Maybe I’ll do them all. Goal setting is trending right? We’re still in January.
I didn’t turn to Google for any of these thoughts but I may after dinner. I would imagine that there are a billion more ways I could spoil myself just waiting to be indulged in.
I want to take myself places. I want to get fit. I want to take care of my skin. I want to be confident. I want to be powerful. I want to be exactly who I am meant to be. Walking without fear. And next month I will not only achieve it. I will embrace it.
It’s the year of walking without fear. And the month of love–it’s time to get spicy. Cause here I come.
What’s your seven for the month?
Thanks for venturing.